Thursday, May 27, 2010
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Rowing the Bus - A Journey of Self-Awareness
As an elementary school boy, Paul Logan was forced to "row" the daily school bus. He was taunted and teased to and from school and felt ashamed and alone. Some people are naturally empathetic, others must learn the skill of empathy. Even though Empathy is learned, Paul learns to be empathetic because he finally stands up to the aggressor, tell him to not bother the young boy and takes a slap to the chest.
When Paul was young, he was ashamed that he had to wear second hand clothing, thick glasses and spoke with an impediment. He was picked on daily by the bully kids. They would tease him and Paul was passive and did not react. It bothered him deeply inside and he wished he stood up to the bully kids.
A year later, Paul notices a new boy is being picked on. It is no longer Paul who is the brunt of attacks, but another boy who walks with a gait. Paul befriends the new boy and it is noticed by the bullies that Paul has a friend. The bullies decided to pick on Paul a last time and question Paul about his new friend. Because Paul was afraid, Paul denied and friendship between the new boy and himself. As Paul's new friend witnessed the cowardly act of denial, Paul felt extremely guilty for denying the friendship. The boy eventually moves to a new school, but Paul carried the guilt with him through to his teenage years.
As Paul became a teenager, he became taller and physically stronger. He continued to "row" the bus with the other kids everyday. Once he saw another kid being harassed he stood up to the harasser and told him not to bother the young child. Paul displays his act of empathy because he was once the bus "rower" like the new freshman. Paul was sure the new kid would not want to be teased or bothered as Paul was when he was the "new kid". Although the harasser slapped Paul on his chest for his remark, the harasser backed down and did not bother the young boy.
The most important reason Paul learns to be empathetic is he was once picked on as a child. It was not until later that had the courage to stand up to his aggressor. He finally learns that he knows what it is like to be picked on and steps in to interrupt the bully from picking on the "new kid".
In conclusion, although empathy is learned, Paul learns to be empathetic for two main reasons. First, Paul finally stands up to the bullies and did not back down. But most importantly, Paul asks the bullies to not bother the young boy because Paul knows what it is like to be the victim of ruthless bullying. This was a journey of self-awarenss for Paul and he learned to be empathetic.
When Paul was young, he was ashamed that he had to wear second hand clothing, thick glasses and spoke with an impediment. He was picked on daily by the bully kids. They would tease him and Paul was passive and did not react. It bothered him deeply inside and he wished he stood up to the bully kids.
A year later, Paul notices a new boy is being picked on. It is no longer Paul who is the brunt of attacks, but another boy who walks with a gait. Paul befriends the new boy and it is noticed by the bullies that Paul has a friend. The bullies decided to pick on Paul a last time and question Paul about his new friend. Because Paul was afraid, Paul denied and friendship between the new boy and himself. As Paul's new friend witnessed the cowardly act of denial, Paul felt extremely guilty for denying the friendship. The boy eventually moves to a new school, but Paul carried the guilt with him through to his teenage years.
As Paul became a teenager, he became taller and physically stronger. He continued to "row" the bus with the other kids everyday. Once he saw another kid being harassed he stood up to the harasser and told him not to bother the young child. Paul displays his act of empathy because he was once the bus "rower" like the new freshman. Paul was sure the new kid would not want to be teased or bothered as Paul was when he was the "new kid". Although the harasser slapped Paul on his chest for his remark, the harasser backed down and did not bother the young boy.
The most important reason Paul learns to be empathetic is he was once picked on as a child. It was not until later that had the courage to stand up to his aggressor. He finally learns that he knows what it is like to be picked on and steps in to interrupt the bully from picking on the "new kid".
In conclusion, although empathy is learned, Paul learns to be empathetic for two main reasons. First, Paul finally stands up to the bullies and did not back down. But most importantly, Paul asks the bullies to not bother the young boy because Paul knows what it is like to be the victim of ruthless bullying. This was a journey of self-awarenss for Paul and he learned to be empathetic.
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Enchilada Casserole On a Dime - Well Not really a dime...
It has been a long day. Although it is already Thursday, it feels like it is one of them endless weeks. Work has been extremely busy, and there had been a strange occurance at my office. I'd rather not publicize. Let me just get right to the point - I'm hungry.
Now, it's about 80 degrees and i decided to make an enchilada casserole. No meat, of course, just some thirsty tortillas, dredged in spicy enchilada sauce and a generous happy dusting of cheese, then layered. Over and over until the baking dish can't fit anymore.
I actually followed the recipe on All Recipes dot com. The recipe's photo looked lovely. Ingredients were minimal, and the steps - simple enough. Of course, I left out the meat. Just simple, cheesy happiness, a little bit of a kick with Las Palmas enchilada sauce. And, to top it off, a sprinkling of olives. 30 minutes at 375 - and done.
Go me!
Yum. I have to admit this was totally simple to do - and i actually left the casserole in there for an extra 20 minutes just to get the cheese brown and bubbly up on top.
Absolutely delicious! So simple and filling, too! It made me feel like a chef when I pull the cheesy crusty concoction out of the oven. I hope who ever read this gives this recipe a try.
Now, it's about 80 degrees and i decided to make an enchilada casserole. No meat, of course, just some thirsty tortillas, dredged in spicy enchilada sauce and a generous happy dusting of cheese, then layered. Over and over until the baking dish can't fit anymore.
I actually followed the recipe on All Recipes dot com. The recipe's photo looked lovely. Ingredients were minimal, and the steps - simple enough. Of course, I left out the meat. Just simple, cheesy happiness, a little bit of a kick with Las Palmas enchilada sauce. And, to top it off, a sprinkling of olives. 30 minutes at 375 - and done.
Go me!
Yum. I have to admit this was totally simple to do - and i actually left the casserole in there for an extra 20 minutes just to get the cheese brown and bubbly up on top.
Absolutely delicious! So simple and filling, too! It made me feel like a chef when I pull the cheesy crusty concoction out of the oven. I hope who ever read this gives this recipe a try.
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Solicitations on my Cell phone
By all means, I know in these tough times a company has to make a dime. Phone solicitation is not the way to do it. I got a call from 972-378-4101 (a recording - because thats more efficient) this morning, "Hi, this is Capital One! Did you know you can set up auto-pay for your Capital One auto loan? Just call 1-800-735-8596". You know what? I dropped everything and said, "dangumit, I am gonna do it!" Then thought, wait a minute, I dont even have a Capital One Auto Loan.
I call the number provided to me in the solicitation and get transferred to a call center in Philipines. The agent I spoke to had no idea how to resolve this. My call was transferred to a manager who also had no idea how remove my name from the calling list. So, he gave me another number to call: 1-800-892-0106. After being transferred around on a AVR system which was in Spanish, I finally get someone in India. Thank you. I was kind to inform the agent I really need to speak to someone who speaks perfect english, my situation is this.... she promptly sent me to someone in the southern US who gladly helped me remove my number from solicitations.
All this DONE! and only 45 minutes of my day sacrificed.
I call the number provided to me in the solicitation and get transferred to a call center in Philipines. The agent I spoke to had no idea how to resolve this. My call was transferred to a manager who also had no idea how remove my name from the calling list. So, he gave me another number to call: 1-800-892-0106. After being transferred around on a AVR system which was in Spanish, I finally get someone in India. Thank you. I was kind to inform the agent I really need to speak to someone who speaks perfect english, my situation is this.... she promptly sent me to someone in the southern US who gladly helped me remove my number from solicitations.
All this DONE! and only 45 minutes of my day sacrificed.
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